Ladies: Don’t Get TOO Comfortable Around Your Man
Posted by ListenToLeon on
October 23, 2009
Yes this video is a little cheesy, but it makes a great point. Ladies, when you’re in a relationship, please don’t get TOO comfortable around your man and stop wearing sexy clothes for him. Hell, it doesn’t even have to be sexy; just wear feminine stuff around the house instead of the same unflattering sweatpants and head scarf. Every.Single.Mother.F*cking.Night. There’s something to be said about allure. Once it’s gone, the light in which we view y’all changes a little, whether anyone wants to admit it or not.
For the record, that’s one of our biggest commitment fears as men. We all know someone who married a woman who was a beauty queen, but now she dresses like a dude standing outside a liquor store in the hood, whenever they’re around the house. A big reason why married people have less sex, is because what normal man gets turned on laying next to someone dressed like she’s waiting to go play a pickup game of basketball?
Trust me ladies: your man will NOT get tired of you if you keep it interesting as far as sleepwear/lounge wear. Sweats are cool every now and then, but don’t go crazy with them. A good rule of thumb is “Would I make fun of a celeb on a gossip blog for wearing this?”
Actually, that might be a little unfair. Let’s use this one: Would I have let him see my like this when we first met? I think that’s a bit more reasonable. This goes both ways, since a lot of guys let themselves go the minute they settle down…but since I like vagina, I’m keeping the focus on the women today. Here are a few suggestions of sleepwear options for every day of the week, to keep the variety going:
Sunday:Sweats(it’s the Sabbath, after all)
Monday: T-shirt and panties, just like the song.
Tuesday: Butt naked. Turn the heat up if you need to.
Wednesday: Nightgown. More Victoria’s Secret, less Sears flannel.
Thursday: Wifebeater & little shorts.
Friday: Whatever shirt I was wearing before I took it off to have sex with you.
Saturday: Just a T-shirt this time. No panties.
See? It’s really not that hard. Consider this another ListenToLeon Public Service Announcement. This entry may piss off the sweatpants sleepers, but it just may save a few marriages, so I’m willing to take that risk!
13 Responses to “Ladies: Don’t Get TOO Comfortable Around Your Man”
Good Advice. Ladies should heed.
By Antwone on Oct 23, 2009
You, Sir, are a wise man. Ellen DeGeneres can get a TV Show, I think you should get one, too.
By Justin on Oct 23, 2009
those were good examples Leon….not too hard or complicated, but sexy and yet simple..like the sexiest things are!!!
By Phoenix7 on Oct 23, 2009
@ Phoenix7, I didn’t want there to be ANY excuses!
@ Justin I’ll work on making that happen. In the meantime, how’s everything with you?
@ Antwone, thank you sir!
By ListenToLeon on Oct 23, 2009
LLS!
By Phoenix7 on Oct 23, 2009
This video is great. I am sending it to all the women I know to “playfully” remind them not to let themselves go.
By Token on Oct 23, 2009
This article is the truth bro. Keep up the good work and I am passing this along.
By BlackManUP!!! on Oct 23, 2009
Good job sir… I like!
By TheJadedVoice on Oct 23, 2009
Absolutely correct. In 13 years, my man has never seen me in curlers, headscarf, or sloppy sweats. Still going strong. Ladies, you don’t necessarily have to do Victoria’s secret, which can get quite expensive. I buy lingerie whenever it’s on sale whether I need it or not. This way, I always have a surprise for him. :)
By Garifunagurl on Oct 27, 2009
hahahahaha so funny and true!
By Nenaah on Oct 29, 2009
Garifunagul, thanks for the advice I will definitely keep this in mind, as well as take some stiletto dancing classes.
By Gina on Nov 5, 2009
i’ve definately let myself go but i can dig the compromise
By Maiy on Nov 7, 2009